would you ever trust him again after the incident?
I wont.

Would you ever forget what he has done?
I wont.

What about you?


Thankfully, I'm not a victim. But it is a perennial thought in the minds of many. Call it insecurity or reality, but it is indeed ubiquitous enough around to justify me being perturbed. Simply dismissing it as an irrational and unfounded fear is foolish. However, being over suspicious might just consume your soul away...and perhaps even drive him away too. The point i'm making is, trust your partner, but do not let it be "blind trust". We are not living in a bubble and there is "no free lunch" in the world. Go figure.